Let’s consider a phone talk, is it still the same? And what if it’s someone you don’t know?

We’ll share the secret of successful communication between people of different gender. And this is not only for talkoclock users, it’s universal; you can use this info in the real life situations to achieve your goal. The main question is what differentiates males and females?

In a short-cut this table may briefly represent most of the differences:

Women	Men
Seek out relationships with others	Tend to seek standing and position
Relate to others as equals	Relate to others as rivals
Desire closeness, togetherness and affinity	Desires space
Express themselves more in private	Express themselves more in public
Are more open to share problems	Keep concerns to themselves
Tend to ask for help, advice and directions	Often will not ask for advice, help or directions
Offer sympathy and display empathy	Freely offer advice and analysis
Desire to understand problems	Are problem solvers

 

What does this all mean? This clearly means that girls more often use talkoclock for communicative purposes underestimating practical ones. While talking they are more inclined to discuss their problems or to show true interest towards yours; in general be too talkative. Male on the contrary are never inclined to share their fears or problems, they do not ask for advice and sometimes show indifference and coldness.

Here are some useful tips for girls how to be successful in communication:

• More requesting a call, less calling
• Be prepared for a failed talk
• Less talking, more listening, giving the male opportunity to say his thought till the end
• Be prepared for a conversation partner to  be cold, impatient or even aggressive

There’s another list of useful tips for guys willing to succeed in the phone talk with a girl

• Be more open, communicative and not to be afraid of self-expression
• Actively show interest and care towards your female conversation partner
• Be patient if a girl is trying to give advice or talk too much, remember she’s only trying to be nice and helpful

 

In general women are the best communicators as their verbal abilities are far wider in comparison to men who in their turn may seem aggressive when talking. So, let’s consider a phone talk and see those differences:

Women	Men
Ask more questions	Make more commands
Make more requests	Interrupts more
Discuss feelings & perceptions	Limited emotional content
Higher quantity of speech	Quantity of speech limited
Speech is more polite	Involves slang or swearing
Includes greater level of detail	Gives information

 

Thus, it’s important to bear in mind this info and make some analyses to achieve the goal of successful communication.

You see it’s possible to improve your communicative skills with the help of talkoclock. Remember the abovementioned tips, make use of them, learn to recognize them and the result will be astounding! You will become more patient, tolerant and successful in communicating with the opposite sex. Not only on talkclock but also in real life. All you need is to communicate more and you’ll definitely find the pleasure of talking to girls or guys which is naturally more pleasant. However, this is the subject of biology…

It’s no secret that the number of guys exceed the number of girls using our service. But this is only a matter of time, so be helpful and nice and invite your female friends to be a part of our community! Share this post on Facebook. Let’s make talkoclock better together!

- Your talkoclock team